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The best advice on mad breakups and blame I’ve ever seen from @DrSuzanneL

That didn’t just hit me but it just hit me and my spirit like to the core

I’ve seen a lot of posts on this subject lately, but you nailed it! Thanks for speaking for us when we can’t find the words.

What you’ve written has given me a case of the sort of ‘Deja vu’ one gets when someone recounts incidents from your past life they couldn’t possibly know

This is a contribution to the literature…Thanks for your vision and insight!!!!

Thank you for this knowledge. It’s like I’m in therapy when I read your comments. Thanks.

Wow..that’s me..I didn’t know how to say it. Or even what was happening. But that’s me to the T

You write in an intelligent way that appeals to the masses

I recently stumbled on your article ‘How to let go of an All-Consuming and Boundless Obsession.’ To say that it felt like someone was inside my mind and my heart would not explain how I felt. It was like seeing light for the first time

I just finished reading your article about being painfully stuck in a  relationship.  This is the first article I have read that truly describes who I am and why.  I actually forwarded it to a few of my friends hoping they would finally understand me

Your imagery and empathy were absolutely breathtaking and much needed

I have scoured the internet for comfort in breakup articles. This is, hands down, the most accurate, comforting, reassuring article I have read. Kudos!

Wow. Feels like you crawled into my head and pulled out everything I’ve been going thru, & put it in perspective for me

This right here Needs to be Heard…An absolute Wow Moment

Right on, Suzanne. I’m glad to know I am not the only one. I’ve been told many times not to feel too much so I don’t get disappointed. What the hell is that? Does it mean a cynical zombie will have better luck in life? No way! I choose to hope!!

Your next post should have all words with hashtags, you nailed it 😉

It can’t be overstated just how very much I needed to hear this tonight, Suzanne. A million thank yous for your clarity, sensitivity, honesty, and compassion. This is a truly life saving message. And now I might actually sleep tonight!!!

I am so …*breathless* from your wisdom , knowledge, and guidance in these complex matters of the heart/mind/emotions, Dr. Lachmann. I just want to sincerely thank you

I just love how invested you are in the health of those who entrust their feelings and problems to you. You’re so thorough in your advice. So unselfish! Thank you!

I’m going through this exact thing right now, and every emotion, thought, and action I experience is described by you perfectly. It makes me realize that I’m not alone, I’m not crazy, and there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

I thought your ‘The 7 Stages of Grieving a Breakup’ brilliant, and something I’ve passed on to someone close to me who’s suffering terribly right now. Thank you

I feel better knowing that I am ACTUALLY wired to be going through what I’ve been feeling these last few weeks after my breakup with the man I loved for the past 6 years…Makes me feel LESS crazy to know I am naturally doing what I was wired to do…Its been very hard going in circles…but somewhat reassuring knowing now that I am not unusual…still hard…but better in the knowing…thank you

What you’ve written has given me a case of the sort of “Deja vu” one gets when someone recounts incidents from your past life they couldn’t possibly know

I have so been exactly there but have never seen it explained so perfectly. Thank you

Dr Suzanne…immeasurable thanks. It is crucial for me to not feel so alone or isolated in this