Do you feel there are things best kept to yourself, things that aren’t fit for the public eye – things you’re deeply ashamed of? For example, I have a patient who struggles to trust her partner. She knows she should, but she just can’t and she sees this inability to trust as an ugly and shameful part of herself. Another patient has such an exaggerated view of body flaws that she starves herself – and feels such self-loathing because of it. These patients bring to therapy not only these symptoms, but a deep and painful shame about what they see as hidden ugliness. What “dysfunctional” behaviors do you engage in that you feel helpless to stop even though you promise yourself you will?
https://i0.wp.com/www.drsuzannel.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/2234720298_7d51c59970_z.jpg?fit=500%2C333 333 500 Suzanne Lachmann http://www.drsuzannel.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Lachmann.Logo_-300x137.jpg Suzanne Lachmann2014-09-25 23:18:032016-01-06 20:27:40Everything You Do is Meant to be Self-Preserving