A Letter to Your People: 5 Ways to Help Me Through Breakup

A Letter to Your People: 5 Ways to Help Me Through Breakup

Breakups can be challenging not only for you, but for the people who care about and support you.  You are in too much pain to explain what you need, so they have no way of knowing the best ways to help you.  To help them help you, I have created a guide to prepare and...
Decrease Relationship Tension by Recognizing Anger or Emphasis

Decrease Relationship Tension by Recognizing Anger or Emphasis

Your partner is speaking loudly with a tense look on their face. Is he or she angry, rageful, looking to argue? Or are they expressing themselves passionately, intensely, fervently excitedly, emphatically? These two vastly different emotional expressions can be easily...
You Deserve More Than ‘Friends With Benefits’

You Deserve More Than ‘Friends With Benefits’

If you are in love with a person with whom you have a friendship/sexual relationship, who is kind, compassionate and a “good friend”, but is unable to reciprocate your adoration, it can be extraordinarily painful to navigate that relationship in a way that...
Blame Slows but Anger Can Speed Recovery From Breakup

Blame Slows but Anger Can Speed Recovery From Breakup

Like violent waves crashing against your very being, overwhelming, disorienting emotions overtake you during the breakup process. As time passes (often lots of time) the reality of the breakup begins to set in. For many, it is later in the breakup process that you...
To Fake It or not to Fake It, That is the Question

To Fake It or not to Fake It, That is the Question

In the beginning of a relationship, before a woman feels trusting and open, and both parties are working to deepen the emotional connection, the pressure can make it difficult for a woman to achieve orgasm. But it was shown long ago that one of the most arousing...